Football: confidence

August 2026

If you run a team at the youngest end of the grassroots pathway, this is the season the game around you changes shape. The FA's FutureFit framework, built off a two-year consultation and research with Liverpool John Moores University across hundreds of grassroots games, introduces a 3v3 entry format at Under-7s from 2026/27.

The instinct for a lot of coaches is to worry that smaller numbers mean a lesser game. The research points the other way. Fewer players means more touches, more one-against-one moments and far less standing about, which is exactly what a six or seven year old needs from their first experience of organised football.

What Actually Changes

The headline is the format itself: three players a side at Under-7s, as the entry point to the pathway, before players step up into the larger formats already familiar to you. Everything downstream of that is a consequence of the numbers.

With three a side, a player is never more than a pass away from the ball. The pitch is small enough that every player is in the game in every phase, and there is nowhere to hide, which is a feature rather than a problem at this age. The old sight of two full-backs picking daisies at the far end simply cannot happen.

Why Smaller Numbers Develop Better Players

Touches are the currency of development at this age. In an eleven-a-side game a young player might get thirty or forty touches in an hour. In a three-a-side game they can get that in ten minutes, and every one of them comes with a decision attached.

Small numbers also compress the game's problems into something a young brain can actually solve. A player learns to recognise when to dribble and when to pass because the picture in front of them is simple enough to read. Scale that picture up too early and they stop reading it at all, and just kick the ball forward and chase.

There is an enjoyment argument too, and it matters more than coaches sometimes admit. Children who touch the ball a lot come back next week. Children who spend an hour watching from the halfway line do not.

How to Coach the 3v3 Game

Step One: Let them play first. Resist the urge to organise a three-a-side game into positions. The whole point of the format is that everyone attacks and everyone defends, and the roles emerge naturally through the game rather than through your instructions.

Step Two: Coach in the gaps, not over the top. Short, quiet interventions with individuals between rotations beat stopping the whole game. If a game is flowing and every child is involved, the best coaching decision is usually to say nothing.

Step Three: Build your sessions in the same shape as the game. If matchday is 3v3, then your Tuesday night should mostly be threes and small conditioned games, not queues and cones. Practice that looks like the game transfers to the game.

Step Four: Rotate constantly. Small teams tire quickly and the intensity is genuinely high, so plan for short, sharp games with regular changes rather than one long session.

Step Five: Talk to your parents early. Some will arrive expecting the format their older child played. A short explanation at the start of the season about touches, involvement and enjoyment saves a lot of touchline confusion in September.

The Session Shape That Fits

A good Under-7s session under this framework barely looks like a training session at all. Arrival activity with a ball each, a small game to get them moving, then a series of threes and fours with different conditions, then more games. No lines, no laps, no waiting.

Conditions are your coaching tool. Want more passing? Add a second ball or a target gate. Want more dribbling? Reward beating a player. The condition does the teaching, and the children do not feel lectured.

Key Coaching Points

  • The 3v3 entry format at Under-7s is about touches and involvement, not a watered-down game.
  • Do not impose positions on a three-a-side team; let the roles emerge through play.
  • Match your training shape to your matchday shape, so practice transfers directly.
  • Use conditions and constraints to coach, rather than stopping the game to talk.
  • Plan short games with frequent rotations, as the intensity of small numbers is high.
  • Brief parents on why the format changed before the first game of the season.

Recommended Drills

VIEW ALL FOOTBALL GAMES

Frequently Asked Questions

Does 3v3 mean my players will struggle when they move up a format?

No, and the research behind the framework suggests the opposite. Players arriving from a high-touch, decision-rich format tend to be more comfortable on the ball and better at reading simple pictures, which is exactly what they need when the numbers increase.

How do I keep a 3v3 game competitive when one team is stronger?

Adjust with conditions rather than by moving children between teams every five minutes. Give the weaker side an extra goal to attack, or limit the stronger side's touches. The game stays close and nobody feels singled out.

What do I do with a squad of ten at Under-7s?

Run two or three small games side by side rather than one big one. It is more work to set up but it keeps every child playing, and it mirrors the matchday format they will experience.

confidence DRILLS
View All
Unfortunately there were no results for your search! Please try again
confidence SESSIONS
View All
confidence ANSWERS
View All

How do I stop players from taking on one too many opponents?

How do I stop players from taking on one too many opponents in a one v one situation - my players insist on trying to go through too many players.

Archived User Coach

U10 boys - How to build confidence on the ball?

hi i coach a under 10's boys team.i am looking for help.unfortently we are not the best team around!all my player,s have not been playing long so we are a long way behind other teams we play i am trying to build conferdence on the ball at present they just wak it aways give up the balli am new to coaching and was wondering am i doing the right thing or should i be doing something else with them.

Archived User Coach

Hi! If I were to coach step-over skills (Ronaldo style)?

Hi! If I were to coach step-over skills (Ronaldo style) to 4 and 5 years players, what warm ups should I start off with? Suppose those players have no or little balance/co-ordination? Step-over is an exciting skill to learn and would do wonder to a player's confidence.<br />Any advice?<br />Paul

Archived User Coach

My team can't seem to get the ball and pass?

Every time my get the ball they will always kick it long and give straight to the time where as they need to gert it and pass. Can any one help?

Matthew Perkins Coach, England

Team thrashed every week - where to start?

Team keep getting thrashed every week - where to start? Having been the sole coach/manager of a little league team for the past two years, this year I lost all my senior players. I was therefore presented with 10 brand new lads, some of whom have never played competitive football. We are 8 games in and my lads are getting thrashed every week. The main problems are that they cannot get the ball out of their half, positions are usually a mess, finishing and chance creation are non-existent, and they don't apply any pressure or are unable to tackle. The main problems are keeping the ball as a team, getting it in the opponents half and staying there, and creating/finishing chances. I only have 1 and a half hours a week with them. I don't really know what to do, and I'm a little desperate. Does anybody have any advice? Thanks for literally anything.

Coach, England

Fun drills to help with confidence, team building and game play?

Im about to coach a mixed ability mixed aged group (8-12) for a one week session, can you recommend ay fun drills that will help with confidence, team building and game play?Thanks

Archived User Coach

how to bring confidence to my boys?

How to bring back confidence to my boys?

Given Mathabela Coach, Swaziland

How to instill confidence and belief - going from 9 a side to 11 a side

Our under 12's have made the jump from 9 a side to 11 a side. We have entered a big city league were results are hard to come by. We play a super 1st half and lose it massively 2nd half, through heads down & fitness. Any suggestions on confidence boosting & training drills to help steady a ship. We are playing a 4 - 2 -3 - 1 formation.Yes we are getting a bit of negativity from the parents to, which does not help. Thank you in advance.

Archived User Coach

Heading practice for U11s - lighter balls?

U11's. I want to practice heading but not with a normal match ball. Is there a light weight alternative I could use. Don't really want to use flyaways I am hoping they is something similar with a bit more weight. CheersRob Asked using Sportplan on Mobile

Archived User Coach

Long Ball Defending for U11s Help

I run a U11 team that is reasonably successful and plays with confidence and spends a lot of the time on the front foot. However we seem to get caught week after week by the simple long ball over the top and would welcome some tips/drills to help the lads improve this part (it's driving me mad!). Thanks in advance.

Ian Coach, England

Best way for son to get more involved in matches

At home he is very good at everything but he doesn't get involved as much when matches are on. Is there any way of coaxing him to shoot and do what he does at home?

Chris Coach, Ireland

Building confidence in team

My kids have lost a bit of their confidence after some heavy defeats Asked using Sportplan Mobile App

Jason walsh Coach, England

ball control

what drills would I do to improve my ball control

marcus cross Coach, England

5-6 Year olds- Participation in matches

hi Guys, i have a question about 5-6 year olds getting ready for next year when they start playing their football matches against other teams. i will use my son as an example,so i can use as a guide for some other parents in the team. average training is ball mastery and a trafficlight game and then into matches for the last half of the session. my sons ball mastery is as good as youd expect for a 5 year old and that always improves with repitition. my difficulty lies when we go into the matches. theres a lack of 'competitiveness' or confidence with my boy, compared to some of the other boys, skills-wise theyre on the same level, but the more confident boys will shine thru and theyre not nessesarily better, he has flashes in games where he will do good, drive with the ball, he is always involved, but im not sure if its confidence or maybe just not as good in the match situations. is there any advice that can be offered in terms of practice that we could work on at home?

Sammy Reen Coach, United Kingdom

training session

design a fun 1 hour coaching session for under 11 girls

Neil Coach, Ireland

Attacking plan for under 9 netball

Drills for attacking for uber 9's

Sheree Gordon Coach, Australia

U10 boys - How to build confid...

hi i coach a under 10's boys team.i am looking for help.unfortently we are not the best team around!all my player,s have not been playing long so we are a long way behind other teams we play i am trying to build conferdence on the ball at present they just wak it aways give up the balli am new to coaching and was wondering am i doing the right thing or should i be doing something else with them.

Archived User Coach

Team thrashed every week - whe...

Team keep getting thrashed every week - where to start? Having been the sole coach/manager of a little league team for the past two years, this year I lost all my senior players. I was therefore presented with 10 brand new lads, some of whom have never played competitive football. We are 8 games in and my lads are getting thrashed every week. The main problems are that they cannot get the ball out of their half, positions are usually a mess, finishing and chance creation are non-existent, and they don't apply any pressure or are unable to tackle. The main problems are keeping the ball as a team, getting it in the opponents half and staying there, and creating/finishing chances. I only have 1 and a half hours a week with them. I don't really know what to do, and I'm a little desperate. Does anybody have any advice? Thanks for literally anything.

Coach, England

Long Ball Defending for U11s H...

I run a U11 team that is reasonably successful and plays with confidence and spends a lot of the time on the front foot. However we seem to get caught week after week by the simple long ball over the top and would welcome some tips/drills to help the lads improve this part (it's driving me mad!). Thanks in advance.

Ian Coach, England

Swapping players between 3 tea...

We have three teams of U8 that play in different leagues all with different skill levels. Is it better to train the three teams seperately so they bond and play as a team or would you swap players around each week.which could mean a league 5 player playing in league 2. Could this knock his confidence?

Andy Coach, England

JOIN SPORTPLAN FOR FREE

  • search our library of 500+ football drills
  • create your own professional coaching plans
  • or access our tried and tested plans

Sportplan App

Give it a try - it's better in the app

YOUR SESSION IS STARTING SOON... Join the growing community of football coaches plus 500+ drills and pro tools to make coaching easy.
LET'S DO IT